Once upon a day...

while sitting with some women friends we got to talking, we all had hit 40 and we realized that –  

  

We had fallen in love

Had our hearts broken

Broken at least one heart

Been single

Stayed single
Hooked up

Gotten married

Married the wrong person

Had children

Forgot to have children

Decided not to have children

Got jobs

Built careers

Changed careers

Quit jobs

Got fired from jobs

Got scared

Felt weak

and STOOD STRONG

looking back we now know how we did it and how to do it better!